Okay, serious question here…
What even is ‘attraction’??
Like… I get crushes. Or I’ve always thought I get crushes. I’m pretty sure I get crushes. But is attraction a desire to do the thing with someone? So romantic attraction would be the desire to be in a relationship with someone? Because I get what I’d describe as crushes but like 99% of the time I would never actually want to date them. (I mean sure if they became my close friend and we spent years getting to know each other and then one day I was look ‘oops I fell in love’ then sure, but otherwise…. nah bro).
And like I see people and I’m often like “well hello!” and “hot damn, yes please!” but… I never like fantasize about doing you know ~the do~ with them, and I would never actually even enjoy kissing them, or any kind of romantic/sexual physical touching at all.
I am so confused
also a teensy bit stressed about this…
If anyone out there needs prayer or to simply just rant, I’m here. I know I’ve encouraged questions, but I forgot to mention that comments are more than ok as well. It doesn’t necessarily have to be related to Christianity or being Asexual. I’m here to encourage and pray for you if you need me.
In other news…
There’s two types of anger one is dry and the other wet and basically wet anger is when your eyes water and your voice shakes and I hate that cause I feel weak when I’m crying while angry I like dry anger when your face is like stone and your voice is sharp I guess wet anger shows that you care too much and dry anger means you’re done.
This is the best description ever
*breaks fingers* let’s do this
I MEANT “CRACKS KNUCKLES” HOLY SHIT
@sillierthanasillylaugh said: I’ve seen a lot on my dash, like John Oliver’s take, but I get the feeling people don’t feel informed enough to have an opinion
Yeah. I don’t really feel like I have enough information about the Scottish economy and exactly what’s going to happen to hold an informed opinion, which is why I haven’t posted much about it.
From what I do know, I don’t think that Independence is a wise economic or political decision. Whatever the outcome though, I’m certain there’ll be a significan amount of civil unrest. 90%+ of Scotland’s population are voting (which is unheard of like… it’s a huge victory if we can get over 50% of the British population to vote on who runs the damn country!), which means that no matter what the outcome, about half of the population of Scotland will be very unhappy about it.
1. Pour out how much you think you need.
- the jaw thing:
- the bicep thing:
- the arm thing:
- the back thing:
- the hip thing:
- the hip bone thing:
- the shoulder thing:
- the perky nipples thing:
- the butt thing:
- the tummy thing:
- the boob bouncing thing:
- the bowlegs thing:
- the whatever this thing is:
It really bothers me when I see posts like ‘I wish I was asexual and aromantic because I hate having feelings!’ Like, no. Don’t say that. Don’t you dare fucking say that asexual aromantic people don’t have feelings. That’s not ok, and it’s extremely harmful and honestly it makes me feel like shit.